What happens in therapy sessions?
Beginning therapy can sometimes be intimidating and it can be helpful to know what to expect. Before we meet for our first session I will email you some basic paperwork. In that paperwork, you will find a couple of brief forms for you to fill out as well as more information about my practice (a lot of that information is also on this FAQ page). You'll bring that paperwork with you to our first therapy session.
All of my sessions begin with "getting the practical stuff out of the way" which means taking care of fee, scheduling, and, in a first session, discussing any questions you might have about the paperwork.
In a first session, after we've gotten the practical out of the way, we will usually spend some time exploring the issues that brought you to therapy. We may start to think about your goals for counseling and we'll begin considering some possible paths we could take to help you achieve them. The first few sessions are also often about just getting to know each other, giving you a chance to feel like what it's like simply siting in the room together. One of my main goals will be to try to create a sense of safety so that you can feel comfortable asking any questions you have about, among other things, how therapy works and what we will do in sessions. In my approach to counseling, I do my best to "let you see the man behind the curtain" and am transparent about what I think could or could not be helpful moving forward.